Boo still loves her imagination and the limitless possibilities it will provide. It's not uncommon to see her outside making pud pies for her doll or practicing her ninja skills on the trampoline. She always has a song in her heart and on her tongue, whether or not she thinks anyone is listening. Delightful! Above she is pictured with her doll, Kara, who is modeling the new clothes that Grandma made for her. Boo also loves to do her hair.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Boo's Birthday
Boo still loves her imagination and the limitless possibilities it will provide. It's not uncommon to see her outside making pud pies for her doll or practicing her ninja skills on the trampoline. She always has a song in her heart and on her tongue, whether or not she thinks anyone is listening. Delightful! Above she is pictured with her doll, Kara, who is modeling the new clothes that Grandma made for her. Boo also loves to do her hair.
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Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Choose life
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Monday, November 15, 2010
My baby turned 7!
The morning of her birthday, Daddy took her out for a special breakfast at Pancake City. She also received the doll she had been wishing for, which she promptly named Cara. Of course, she's now extra careful not to leave out her special teddy bears in favor of Cara. They are getting more playtime than ever before. I don't know about other kids who've seen the Toy Story movies but they seem to make my girls feel guilty if they haven't played with their special toys lately.
Anyhow, this was a special birthday and while it concentrated on her birth country, we were surprisingly unrattled by issues that have plagued her in the past. Praising God for what seems to be a breakthrough. I'm also saddened to think of another parallel. Boo is now at about the same age as Spiderman was when he joined our family. All the ups and downs and special memories I share with Boo during these first 7 years are a big question mark for my son & I. Now don't get me wrong, I don't pine away for those years. I know God used them to prepare my son for whatever the future may hold in his life. I guess it's just a reminder of exactly how much of his history I don't share with him. As I look back on Boo's first 7 years, I realize just how much has happened in that time to make her grounded in her family identity. It truly is amazing at how grounded Spiderman already is in his 3 short years here. Just more of God's miracles.
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Saturday, October 2, 2010
Spiderman's 10th Birthday!
In fact, I was painfully reminded again today that the flip side to the beauty of adoption is deep loss. While the details are private, there has been no denying that for two of my children - birthdays (and gotcha days)can be difficult. They are something to celebrate for sure but you can't celebrate a birth and remove it from the fact that it happened in another place with other people present who are no longer in the picture. The loss of those happy and sad memories, the "knowns" and the "unknowns", is enough to grieve over again and again.
Just as my children have long noticed that there is always something "bad" that happens in a story before it can have a happy ending, we are all still working our way through the story and trusting that God's perfect plan will bring us to the ending beyond what we've hoped for.
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Sunday, September 12, 2010
A Glorious Day
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Thursday, September 2, 2010
Parting shots of August
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Friday, June 11, 2010
Special Friends = special memories
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Thursday, January 28, 2010
We can see...
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Friday, January 8, 2010
Serious winter!
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Tuesday, September 29, 2009
My 9 year old American
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Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Honoring Almaz
This last weekend we were so blessed to have a short visit from Almaz, the woman who runs Hannah's Hope Ethiopia. It seemed as if it might not happen even though we had been planning it for quite some time. God gifted us all when He made it possible and though she was only here for less than 48 hours, we made the most of our time together.
Here are the mommas of the special bunch of kids. We were surprised and yet blessed that the Morby's travelled all the way from New Hampshire and the Riggs drove all the way up from Oklahoma, for such a short and spontaneous trip. The rest of us Missouri Mommas had it easy in comparison. Of course, we all took turns filling in Almaz on our children and picking her brains about what God continues to do in her life and at Hannah's Hope. We will not forget this weekend!
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Friday, November 7, 2008
My baby is FIVE!
Oh my, where has it gone? This is my baby the first day we met her in Guatemala. Probably taken after I finished sobbing. :) How incredible to meet her that day and study her every feature in person that I had already encountered in referral photos. Of course how could we not focus on her stubbornly STRAIGHT hair that we could not get to lay flat no matter what we did. We never saw her head of curls coming...
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Monday, September 29, 2008
a SUPER 8th birthday
Spiderman became Batman for his birthday. If he had his choice, he would have been the Human Torch from the Fantastic Four but I didn't think he'd really like it if we set him on fire. :) Anyway, we represented all superheroes at the party and he loved it! As for me, I finally learned that there are some limits in decorating birthday cakes. Scyscrapers are to be avoided in the future but I had thought that a long rectangle with "supers" scaling it would be easier than a "super" himself. Well, after decorating an 8 story/layer cake tower I learned it wasn't such a great idea. Overnight the building came tumbling down, decorating my kitchen in grey frosting. Before the birthday boy saw the demolition, I wisked it away to the freezer and salvaged it horizontally for the party that afternoon. He was happy, I was wiser. Whew!
Getting into the superhero theme, my kids all got dressed up for the party and here they are displaying their powers. Boo backed out at the last moment but had been "Ballerina Girl" before the party. Unlike last year, Spiderman seemed very at ease with all the attention and revelled in every bit of it.
The highlight of the party was our "evil villain hunt." I had explained to the kids that we needed them to patrol the grounds for evil villains and we armed them with "plasma bombs" (AKA water balloons). I told them four were hiding in the trees and one was loose in the backyard. As they pelted the bad guy faces in the trees, they moved to the backyard and all of the sudden "the Joker" appeared armed with a super soaker. The boys were in hysterics as they chased my man, I mean the Joker, around the backyard pelting him with water balloons. I only wish I had it on video! I was informed later that I had armed him with a faulty Super Soaker and the battle was truly one-sided. What a good Dad!
Can you see the grin on the birthday boys' face? The joker was definitely outnumbered.
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Sunday, September 21, 2008
God is so good!
This was the big week for Kinsman Redeemer. We held our first ever Community Informational Meeting on ways to be involved in orphan ministry. Though it was only weeks in the making, it felt like months! :) The day finally arrived but it was not without much warfare and trouble. The day before the event, my man erupted in a major allergic reation to a sulpha drug. It was a real doozie and resulted in a trip to the doctor. The next morning he was actually worse with fever, chills, aching and shaking violently. The head to toe rash was getting worse and we ended up back at the doctor. He wanted to admit my man into the hospital and as we got to the parking lot, the battery in our van was dead. After getting a jump start, dropping my man off at the front door of the hospital ("bye honey, you're on your own"), going to get a new battery installed, then back to the hospital, we finally saw Daddy resting comfortably in his much too short hospital bed. The kids were real troopers throughout all of this but there was some real concern on their part as to just how serious this was for Daddy. Spiderman seemed especially concerned that Daddy's life was in jeopardy, a reminder to me of just how many fears this little guy must carry with him still.
Anyway, we spent a hour or so with my man before we had to leave, grab dinner from a drive-thru, run home to change and close up the house we had abandoned earlier that day. For the first time since we had our chickens, they would NOT come back to the hen house for us and we finally had to leave them roaming so we wouldn't be too late for the Big Meeting. You might imagine by now just how stressed I was feeling from the day's events and I don't say this to complain. As we set up the tables and information while people were arriving early, I had no idea what I was going to say to the crowd now that my "behind-the-scenes" role had evaporated. (My man was supposed to MC the event and now it fell to me) I pulled my friend Lori aside for a quick prayer and told God that I was counting on His words to come out of my mouth as I had nothing prepared. I begged God that everything said would bring glory to Him. He answered mightily.Here I am introducing the last part of the evening, our parent panel made up of foster and adoptive parents. I still look back and marvel at the evening. I don't enjoy public speaking at all and yet, once I stepped up to the podium I felt a complete sense of peace. I was able to speak from the heart, make sense (so I've been told), and connect things to scripture as I introduced speakers and fielded questions. God's Presence was so vivid for me and afterward, one man even told me that he noticed I didn't read from a script and my heart felt words had challenged him deeply. He and his wife are considering adoption. The other board members also had similar encouraging conversations and opportunities. We know of at least 5 families who communicated to us that they are looking into foster care or adoption and we are rejoicing for whatever small part we can play in that process.
Here are the kids with Daddy earlier in the afternoon. The other amazing thing that night was that these 4 children did so well being self contained and not requiring "Mommy" in the midst of the chaos for the 3 hours we were at the meeting. Afterward, we went back to the hospital to "tuck Daddy in" and then home. It was about 9:30 pm and I went to lock up the chickens when I saw that they never returned! This was the last straw for me. Since the chicks were "devoured" two weeks ago, and this had never happened before - I was at the end of my strength for the day. I know it sounds silly now but I prayed so much for those 5 silly hens that night, I begged God to protect them from whatever predators were lurking around. I just knew the kids (OK and me) couldn't handle losing all of our chickens, on this day especially. It was just too much. I cried my eyes out thanking Him for the meeting and asking for my man's healing but I knew it was life and death for the hens that night. What a huge relief to go out early and find them clucking around the coop, trying to get in for breakfast. You can call it luck but I know my God had a guardian angel on those stupid birds that night! The kids were so relieved.
Life is back to normal now. Daddy's out of the hospital and finally symptom free. Here he is "watching" football with Goose (gotta love it!) The big meeting is over (though the good feedback of God's working in hearts is still coming in) and I get to go back to regular "Mom duty" as I prepare for a birthday party this next weekend. Just had to share how God is so much bigger than circumstances and how thankful I am that I can trust him to carry me through the trying times.
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Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Spiderman's First "Gotcha Day"
Above: 8/12/07 meeting in Ethiopia and Daddy teaching high fives.
Below: 8/12/08 with his "gotcha" gift we bought while in Ethiopia. (If you can't tell it's a painted drum) He picked lasagna and zucchini bread for dinner tonight and had Ethiopian food for lunch. What a fun thing to celebrate as a family.
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Monday, August 4, 2008
Hannah's Hope Reunion
What fun we had Saturday at our first reunion of the older kids at HH Ethiopia. The morning was filled with meeting each other and taking lots of photos, followed by a big water fight and games. We finally broke for lunch, followed by a wet afternoon at the local water park. We took a short break and then returned for an evening filled with food, fun and of course fellowship. Many new friendships were made and old ones rekindled. It was a priceless opportunity and I tried to share some shots below (I have SO MANY photos it's hard to choose - Thanks Roger!) Just an FYI: the parents are in red, the siblings in green and the HH Ethiopia kids are in yellow. Our attempt at the Ethiopian flag.I thought you'd be able to see these faces better on my blog but... well I'll tell you which families came. The Rye, Schneider, Murphy, Morby, Eastin, Riggs, Garrison, Smith and McCarty families are pictured here. Some travelled from as far away as New Hampshire, Michigan and Oklahoma - THANK YOU EVERYONE for taking the time to make this happen. There is already talk about when to do it again.
Here are the all the kids from HH. For those of you lurking who only know them by their Ethiopian names, they are: (from top left) Hiwot, Kidist, Tigist, Samrawit, Amerech, Genet. (from bottom left) Tizita, Birtukan, Getaneh, Habte, Abdu, Azmera.
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