That's when we took a big step of faith and accepted the referral of Spiderman. I remember what a big struggle it had been getting to that point (you can read about it in my first blog post ) and we had just begged God to make it clear to us if this waiting child was OUR son. Ironically, in this case the peace from God didn't come until after we signed those papers and I know a spiritual battle had raged in the heavenly realms to put this precious boy in our home. I shudder to think what would have been had we been too timid to step forward as Spiderman has been such a sweet blessing to our family.
So one year ago today, we finally knew who it was God had for us but it would still be a couple more months til we met this little guy. Boy did we pray that God would equip us to handle the job of parenting this guy, that he would be prepared to receive our love and that God would knit our children together as siblings. God has answered in mighty ways in all 3 accounts and He continues to grow us all together each day. His ways are perfect!
Here are a couple of photos of Spiderman while he was still in the government orphanage in Ethiopia. We did not see these photos until he had come home but I wanted to share them with you. I know I'm his Mom but I can see that sweet spirit in his eyes, even in the midst of such hardship.If you can't tell off hand, Spiderman is right in the middle in the blue shirt. I believe this was the first day that AGCI came to the ophanage and at the time, he was just one of many children needing love and attention. I tell him that out of all these children (in this photo) "God chose you to come to Hannah's Hope because He would be bringing us to you". At the same time it breaks my heart not knowing how many of these children remain in that overcrowded orphanage, waiting for their own someone to come.
What a precious smile! This was the same day that Spiderman was "picked" to come to Hannah's Hope in the first group of 6 older children. All I can say is that he wasn't "supposed" to be among that group but God intervened and praise God He did! That was on Feb. 3, 2007 and though we knew nothing about him that day, it was on Feb. 4th that God brought my man and I to a place of surrender to adopt again. God's timing is PERFECT!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
One year ago today
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Sunday, June 15, 2008
They are home!!!!!!!
We were thrilled and surprised that the Eastin's and McCarty's were up to coming to church this morning. What a way to celebrate Father's Day! It was emotional to see the kids all meet up in Sunday School and give hugs and exchange shy looks with one another. Spiderman was the only one who couldn't communicate (as he has lost his Amharic). There was certainly excitement in the air.
Introducing Tigist, Hope, and Amerech - the three 11 year old girls (I think they make up about half of their Sunday School class)and here in the next class is Spiderman, sitting by Getaneh, Azmera, Goose and Genet. Tizita is sitting accross from them. Almost half of this class was "imported by God" and as Goose said, there are going to be lots of brown faces in our class now! :) Spiderman was pretty quiet but after church he declared, "I can't wait til these guys can speak English!".
Late this afternoon, we went to the Eastin's to deliver some Ethiopian food. The other families were there visiting already and so we stayed for a bit. The girls are here watching someone jump on the trampoline and seem so at ease having each other around.
Here you can see 7 of the 8 Hannah's Hope kids playing. Other than ours, all the other kids have siblings, teenage to all grown up. That is proving to be quite a help to the families as they try to recouperate from their jet lag and need some extra hands and energy at times (I hear that Getaneh is non-stop, FULL of energy!) I'm sure they are not lacking for attention either as they are well adored.
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Happy Father's Day!
This is my man with his little princess. I had to say that I watched the funniest interaction with them the other night. They were playing "Kung Fu Barbie" all by themselves and you should have seen the slick moves each of their Barbies were making. I would have killed for a video camera but this man is precious with his children!
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Friday, June 6, 2008
Welcome Home Tizita!
Praise God! We were happy to travel to Tizita's new home on Monday and meet the little girl we've been praying for. Though she and Spiderman didn't know each other in Ethiopia, it still seemed to bring her some comfort knowing he had come through Hannah's Hope and now seems so settled in his new home. Not only that, my girls have been praying for her for awhile now and were thrilled to finally meet their new friend. I loved watching how language was not even an issue for the kids. They navigated blowing bubbles, playing games and exploring this fun play castle in her backyard with many giggles. We are praising God for her safe journey to her forever family, though her parents are still recovering from jet lag and the expectations of a very active 8 year old. :) (Yes, believe it or not, this little firecracker is 8 1/2 yrs old - older than Jaybird - and just a hair shorter than Boo).
Here are the girls together. While Goose loves her new friend, Boo has claimed her for her OWN! They are about the same size and walk around with their arms wrapped around each other. Keep praying! This weekend two more families leave to bring home the next 5 beautiful kids - stay tuned!
Before heading over to Tizita's house, I made some Ethiopian food (all my recipes are on this blog "somewhere"). Spiderman chowed down at lunch time and as eating Ethiopian food is a full blown, messy "sport" for him, he had to go shirtless to spare me the stains.
This is just a recent shot of Spiderman's giggles. As you can see he's getting those little man teeth in his mouth finally and actually lost another one on Tuesday. I was mortified the next morning when he came to me and said, "Mom, something's wrong. What happened to the tooth fairy?" Yep, I TOTALLY forgot about it. I explained that this happened to Goose once and the tooth fairy came the next night and he seemed appeased. With many reminders to myself written around the house, I'm happy to say that this morning he showed me his cash along with a note from the tooth fairy, apologizing and explaining her delay. He is satisfied and I'm RELIEVED!
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