Yep, it's actually happened. Jaybird turned 13 last month and there is no going back. We took this opportunity to change the way we celebrate his birthdays, to do it in a more "manly" way. We took him out for lunch, just Murph and I, and he chose McD's as he loves Big Macs. :) We had a fun time with him but also had some more meaningful discussions about growing up, what is to come in his responsibilities and expectations, how we saw him maturing and so on. We really wanted him to be affirmed that we saw his unique giftings and wanted the best for his future.
That evening we had his special dinner with the rest of the kids and presented him with this"certificate" to place in his room. It is based on a book called The Blessing and it basically expresses that we are thankful to be his parents, we see his good qualities and we commit to always love and support him. It also has a scripture passage we turned into our prayer for him and our signatures. With such a silly and fun loving guy, I wasn't sure if this was too formal for him but he LOVED it! After dinner, we all prayed specifically for him and it was heartwarming to hear his siblings praying for God's blessing on his future. Can you see the joy on this guy's face (or the trace of mustache that has been growing there)?
He really is a special guy and we love watching him mature and develop into the man he will become. What a gift to have him in our home.
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