Monday, December 27, 2010

Christmas Day



Thanks to my big sister, we always open new PJ's on Christmas Eve every year.   The kids were excited to show them off, knowing that the rest of the stash wasn't far away.  After last year's lesson on wake up times (someone got up at 3:00 am), we told the kids they couldn't come down and make noise until 7:00 am.  This made for much happier parents. 

Also, before opening our presents we talked about the people around the world having a very different Christmas.  The kids had raised money among themselves to buy some chickens, honeybees and milk for the needy through "Samaritan's Purse".   They prayed for those people to have a good Christmas and to learn about Jesus love.  It was a nice way to start off our morning as we opened more gifts than we need, like most Americans.


In short, we are filled to the brim with fun new things and giddy kids.  I'm giddy that I have a week off of school and that we're mostly healthy (though I did wake up Christmas Eve with some sort of pink eye).  To top it off, my sweetie is taking me out on an anniversary date on the 30th to celebrate our 15th wedding anniversary.  It's amazing how time flies but I wouldn't want it any other way.  Life has been so good to us praise God.  I don't know what the future holds but I'm ready to face a new year and see what God has in store for us. 


Grandma made some matching PJ's for Boo and her doll, Cara.

Even more Legos to add to the collection (among others).


Happy New Year everyone!!!!!!

Christmas Eve Fun



















Just in time, we got our white Christmas as the snow poured down on Christmas Eve.   This has been our first "good" snow this year so the kids were anxious to get out and play hard.  The younger Eastin and Schneider kids all came over for some serious sledding fun and it was great. 



That evening, our three families got together for a big meal, baby Jesus birthday cake (traditions) and lots of laughing.  It was a wonderful way to kick off the Christmas weekend.


Sunday, December 19, 2010

Where have I been?

 Well the questions have come - "Why haven't you been posting on your blog?  What's going on in your life?"  I can't even begin to detail the past two months but I will say that God is good, all the time.  Even when life is difficult.  In honor of the Christmas season, I thought I'd write a little song to bring you up to speed.  You'll have to put it to the tune of the 12 days of Christmas.....


In the two months before Christmas my family gave to me

12 hens in the hen house -needing attention

11 pounds of mud and snow tracked in the house

10 over-the-counter medications

9 loads of laundry – each week

8 wet mittens on the floor

7 weeks of home schooling

6 trips to see the Doctor

5 vomit stains on the carpet

4 kids in a Christmas Pageant

3 sets of visiting company

2 major holidays to prepare for

And 1 child sick with pneumonia




(I'll try to do better after Christmas :)

Monday, November 15, 2010

My baby turned 7!



It's hard to believe that this little one is already 7 - there must be some mistake!  Of course she insists the math is right on target.  In some ways she acts older than her age, no doubt to having older siblings to tag along with.  She really wanted a sleepover party but I held firm to the "not before your 9th birthday" rule.  Instead, she chose to have a Guatemala themed party, complete with a sombrero for herself, Guatemalan worry dolls for her guests and the flag themed cake you see above.  Ironically, after all these years - she no longer wanted a pinata (which is the main birthday tradition I know of in Guatemala).  Instead she chose a scavenger hunt for the group to find their party favors.  This girl knows what she likes.  In fact I really have witnessed her transforming before my eyes into a person more sure of herself, who is willing to risk in her relationships with friends.  She is just adorable, huh?

The morning of her birthday, Daddy took her out for a special breakfast at Pancake City.  She also received the doll she had been wishing for, which she promptly named Cara.  Of course, she's now extra careful not to leave out her special teddy bears in favor of Cara.  They are getting more playtime than ever before.  I don't know about other kids who've seen the Toy Story movies but they seem to make my girls feel guilty if they haven't played with their special toys lately.

Anyhow, this was a special birthday and while it concentrated on her birth country, we were surprisingly unrattled by issues that have plagued her in the past.  Praising God for what seems to be a breakthrough.  I'm also saddened to think of another parallel.  Boo is now at about the same age as Spiderman was when he joined our family.  All the ups and downs and special memories I share with Boo during these first 7 years are a big question mark for my son & I.  Now don't get me wrong, I don't pine away for those years.  I know God used them to prepare my son for whatever the future may hold in his life.  I guess it's just a reminder of exactly how much of his history I don't share with him.  As I look back on Boo's first 7 years, I realize just how much has happened in that time to make her grounded in her family identity.  It truly is amazing at how grounded Spiderman already is in his 3 short years here. Just more of God's miracles.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

What happened to October????


I know life is busy for everyone so I won't make excuses for not blogging in about 6 weeks. :)   I'll just try to sum it up.  We celebrated fall in many fun ways that included hay rides, pumpkins, cider and as you can see - building our own scarecrow.  The kids loved it all and our new friends is still sitting on the porch as I type, despite being beheaded on more than a few occassions.


Isn't this beautiful?  Our dear friends travelled to Ethiopia last month to meet their 2 new daughters.  They brought back some fun new Ethiopian clothes for the kids here and all but one were able to pose for this photo at church for me.  Those same friends are back right now to bring the girls home.  I can't wait to post a complete photo with the missing 3 faces...


Of course we ended the month with some fun costume moments.  We were glad to have our friends, the Jeffries, come for a week's visit.  The kids loved having a couple extra "siblings" for the week and us Mommas had fun scrapbooking while the menfolk were away hunting deer.  Good times.


Now on to November....

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Spiderman's 10th Birthday!


My how time flies!  My momma's heart wants to know how this big guy can be 10 when he's only been home 3 years?  Tonight we watched some old home movies and saw him while still in Ethiopia.  He doesn't even look like the same person.  The common theme though is he's still as sweet as ever.  Here he is above with the Lego set he's been wishing for (and talking about incessantly) for the past couple of months.  To top off that dream come true, he had 4 boys spend the night last night to help celebrate and he loved every minute of it.  Below they are modeling all the Lego creations they made to stage their imaginary Star Wars battles.  He really is blessed with a great set of buddies here. 


His best buddy, Jacob, even came with his own Bobba Fett costume.  That added quite the drama when it came to the Nerf gun, sword and light saber battle they had outdoors.  Spiderman had such a wonderful time and he came down pretty hard when it was all over and the friends had gone home. 


In fact, I was painfully reminded again today that the flip side to the beauty of adoption is deep loss.  While the details are private, there has been no denying that for two of my children - birthdays (and gotcha days)can be difficult.  They are something to celebrate for sure but you can't celebrate a birth and remove it from the fact that it happened in another place with other people present who are no longer in the picture.  The loss of those happy and sad memories, the "knowns" and the "unknowns",  is enough to grieve over again and again. 

Just as my children have long noticed that there is always something "bad" that happens in a story before it can have a happy ending, we are all still working our way through the story and trusting that God's perfect plan will bring us to the ending beyond what we've hoped for.

Boo's Makover


Boo has been thinking about a haircut for awhile now and it finally all came together.  Of course she would only let Katie Ball cut it (not some stranger) and she wanted to wait until fall (I think it's here) so she took the plunge.  This is all a pretty big step for this girl who asked for a haircut this summer and when I took off a couple of inches, she sobbed the rest of the day because Goose's hair was no longer than hers. :)

So this was actually taken well into the haircut, it was even longer to begin with.  I was scooping up piles of hair so she wouldn't see them and freak out how much hair was coming off.  She said she wanted it short, well above her shoulders and when it was done (we went with a slightly longer version) she was THRILLED!  In fact, she couldn't stop giggling and we could hear her from the other room as she was looking in the mirror.  I don't know if I've ever seen her so completely unable to stop smiling.  She posed for quite a photo shoot after that.  Isn't she adorable?


She spent the afternoon trying out all different ways to wear her hair and BOUNCING around the house since, "It feels so bouncy".  Boo tends to be a fun loving kid but she avoids anything that draws attention to herself.  She'd rather not have all eyes on her and even positive attention can make things difficult around here.  My favorite statement from her today was, "I feel like a whole new person".   In many ways this year, I see her becoming more sure of herself and growing into a whole new Boo. 

Friday, October 1, 2010

Mother-Son Stampede




We finally had our turn (according to my boys).  After watching the girls head to dances with their Daddy in the past, there was an event just for the boys and I this week.  The Stampede was put on by various organizations in town and the boys were thrilled to hit the town with Mom.  Of course, the silly thing is that once we arrived and took the hayride to the party, they were runnin' with the boys more than hangin' with their mom.  Imagine hundreds of boys, eating, shooting guns & bows, running obstacle courses - all while their moms are trying to keep up with them or just keep track.  Just when I'd coral Jaybird to say that Spiderman & I were going to get some food, he'd inform us that he already had.  Well, technicalities aside, the boys had a blast and definitely want to go again so in their mind, Mom dates are pretty fun. :)



Sunday, September 12, 2010

A Glorious Day

Spiderman is an amazing boy.  We often marvel at what all he has been through in his short, little life and yet he has such a positive attitude (most of the time).  How beautiful to watch today as his earthly Daddy helped him publicly identify with his Heavenly Daddy through believer's baptism.  Precious!

It was over 2 years ago that he gave his heart to Jesus and we've watched him grow in his faith ever since.  He's been "contemplating" baptism for the past year but had been too scared to get up in front of everyone to do it.  All this week he has been praying that God would help him to be brave so he could be baptized.  Well God did help him and he even told me afterward that  it really wasn't that scary after all.  That's the peace that comes from knowing you've obeyed what your Father has asked you to do.  Thank you Jesus!



In God's timing, All God's Children International chose this week to share the miracle story (check it out) of what God has done here in our little family and our little church.  Today was a neat reminder about the bigger picture of why God brought this child to our family - to help bring him to his eternal family. 

 "Come and see what God has done, how awesome His works in man's behalf!" Psalm 66:5 NIV

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Parting shots of August

This month we celebrated Spiderman's 3rd Gotcha Day.  Yep, we've been blessed to be his parents for 3 years now and time has just flown.  We've watched him grow physically (5 clothing sizes, 26 lbs and 7 inches since coming home), mentally (he has progressed in school - not easily but with much hard work), culturally (now loves pizza, Bill Cosby and often says "Dude"), socially (while still quiet, he's gone from painfully shy to everybody's best friend), and spiritually (he's come to faith in Jesus Christ and prays for everyone he can think of to do the same ).  He seemed to accept us as his family from the get go but has definitely grown very comfortable in his place here with us.   God has exceeded our expectations!

In honor of the celebration, Grandma and Great Aunt Liz made a trip out to visit for the week.  We had a great time and played a LOT of games.  We're thankful they took the time to travel so far out to see us.



August was also a time to get some summer projects done that we've been putting off due to the crazy heat.  My man and I worked on powerwashing the house and decks, water sealing them both and scraping, sanding and painting the trim on the front of the house.  Nothing too enjoyable though it all looks pretty nice.  The kids got in on the action by painting our shed (now lovingly called the barn) a more festive color.


It's very cheery now and it complements the nice new roof my man gave it earlier this summer.  The kids were proud to put their own elbow grease into the project, though they were surprised to see that painting was as much "work" as it was.  Looks great guys!  Now we're ready for fall and school! 

Monday, August 30, 2010

local wildlife

Just a quick look at our recent nature opportunities.  We had fun waiting for our monarch caterpillar to hatch from it's cocoon.  We actually missed the actaul moment it emerged but we had fun holding it while it got it's strength together.  Here is Jaybird showing off his new buddy - it actually stayed around us for over an hour.

Now you have to look really closely but here is Spiderman holding a cool spotted salamander we found out back.  That's the first one we've ever found here and I was glad to see the boys were both interesed in holding and examining it -though the girls kept their safe distance. 

 

Here is Goose trying her hand at milking a cow.  She had been bugging me for a year or so about wanting to milk a cow and we finally had our chance.  All the kids gave it a shot and figured out the proper technique.  We were really put to shame when Mr. Noe took hold and did some serious milking in very little time.  Very impressive.  The kids tried some fresh, warm milk but decided they prefer it cold!  The Noes were nice enough to send our milk home with us so we could enjoy it for the next few days.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

The Budding Chefs

As part of a summer experiment and teaching opportunity, we decided to have each of the kids try their hand at playing chef (planning and preparing the meal for the family).  They had to choose what to make, check the pantry for ingredients, make a shopping list for what was missing and then prrepare and serve the meal on their night.  Each week, we had a night where it was someone elses turn.  They loved it!

Goose went first and planned a big meal of chicken lasagna, garlic bread and jello parfaits.  It was all delicious but I forgot to take any photos.  Silly me.

Spiderman here chose homemade pizza, fruit salad, and this cake for dessert.  They relished every step, from what to make and how to prepare it.  Can you see the big smile?



Jaybird chose to BBQ for his meal and you can see the hot dogs and burgers sizzling on the grill.  He paired that with chips and salsa and pumpking pie (his favorite dessert).  Oh the power he weilds with those tongs...


Boo had a more creative touch with her meal plans.  You can see her showing off her ocean themed seashell mac and cheese topped with octo-dogs.  Finish that off with a big bowl of dirt and worms (chocolate and gummy respectively) for dessert and we all felt like kids again. 


GOOD JOB KIDS!

Friday, July 30, 2010

Summer Camp

This was the first year my kids have gone to Church Camp (mostly because I was asked to help and that required them coming along).  This was the SCCA Junior Camp for 3rd & 4th graders but all 4 kids LOVED it!  I was thankful it was only Sun thru Wed. as I'm getting too old for all that fun out in the heat.  I may have gone reluctantly but God got my heart right while at camp and blessed me by the opportunity to love on these kids.  I spent many years as a camper and I know how important those experiences, lessons and memories can be.


This is Boo with her new friend, Christian.  The first night she slept by me but then she moved her bed to be next to her.  It was great to see her making friends and seeing the other kids treat her as a peer instead of a little kid.  She did her fair share of memorizing verses for the team too.  The week's theme was "Believe it" and the lesson I had to teach was on Deborah (Judges 4:). 


Here is Goose with one of her many new friends, Shana.  She really has no trouble making friends and if anything, her struggle is juggling the demands of the other girls around her.  She's learning that you can't make everyone happy all the time.  That's difficult for one with a compassionate heart but a necessary lesson to learn.  Like the other kids, she was not ready for camp to end and is already planning for next summer.

The boys had a great time but as I wasn't allowed in their dorm, I don't have a picture of them for you.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Summer Celebrations & Such

We just celebrated a wonderful Independence Day.  We enjoyed a yummy cookout with friends and while we waited for the fireworks that evening, we made tie dyed shirts and played four-square (it was amazing how long they kept at the game).  Here is the beautiful outcome of the shirt project and the happy faces of their designers.



The next day we went blackberry picking at the family farm.  You can see it was a very fruitful few hours in the heat, thorns and ticks.  That's why they say, "no pain, no gain."  Now we are enjoying the "gain" in the form of jam, syrup and smoothies.

A huge blessing has been the recent arrival of the newest Ethiopian friend.  Jonah was welcomed home by his new family and our little group of friendly support.  I can't tell you how excited my boys are that another boy has been added to the group, even if he is a bit older than they are.  Please pray for Jonah & his new family as God knits them together and they adjust to their new life together.

Now this one probably doesn't qualify to many as a celebration but I disagree.   My man and his boys worked hard to reroof our shed this past weekend.  Not only was this a first for all of them but it turned out great.  You wouldn't know it was a first for them.  The boys mostly did the dismantling but they were proud to help out Dad.  Good job Babe!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Final Visits

Our last day out East was spent with some more relaxing family visits and the guys even did some skeet shooting together.  It was a relaxing day to finish up the whirlwind week.

We started our trip home on Father's Day and stopped in West Virginia to visit with Big Skip & Sue.  My man's best hunting buddy, Skip, is their son but he is in the Phillipines this summer on a mission trip.   We had a great visit with his parents and they treated us like kings & queens at their gorgeous hunting cabin for the evening.  If my man has his way, he'll be back out to hunt with the gang this fall...


After that, we spent the last day driving for 13 or so hours to get home!  As nice as it was to be in our own beds that night, we weren't thrilled about the nasty hot & wet weather we returned home to (we are about 12 inches AHEAD in normal rainfall this year and we're ready to build an ark).  And so ends our 2010 vacation.  Now back to real life....

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

D.C. - Day 2

We started off our day with a trip to Arlington National Cemetary.  There was a lot more walking so this was a bit tougher for the kids with sore feet and thirsty bodies but watching the changing of the guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier was worth it.  It's about a 15 minute process which is very precise and respectful.  Amazing to think that they do this AT LEAST once every hour, AROUND the clock, in ALL weather and every day! 

Arlington is simply a sight to behold and to remember what great sacrifices have been made in the pursuit and protection of freedom.  I first visited here in college and it was even more powerful to bring my children.


After Arlington, we met me sister and her friend at an Ethiopian Restaurant.  The food was wonderful and for the first time, even my 3 other children found something on the plate that they could eat willingly. :)  Not usually the case but the food was great and it was in the heart of the city rather than the tourist area.  Even that was an adventure for us country folks.


By now we were ready to head to the National Air & Space Museum.   There was an amazing amount of stuff to see - hanging everywhere you looked.  I can see why this is the most popular museum in the country.  The kids loved it and as it was smaller, we were able to rush through it in about 3 hours. 


Here are the kids with the Wright Brothers, sort of. :)  We did actually get to see their plane, The Kittyhawk.  It's amazing to think of how far air travel has gone in such a relatively short amount of time.
We made it back to the hotel to get the van and headed back to the Grandparents for the night.  The kids loved that we again got to cross the Chesapeake Bay Bridge (5 miles long) which they think is SUPER cool!  We didn't see everything we wanted to in DC but there is only so much you can do in 2 days.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Washington D.C - Day 1


The much anticipated aspect of this trip was our nation's capital.  Last school year we studied American History so this was quite a way to finish it off and also to launch us for next year.  Icing on the cake was that my sister met us in the city and spent some time catching up with us (Thanks Aunt Susie!).  It was so hard to choose some photos to represent our time here but here is my snapshot view. 

The kids were quite surprised to see how tiny the Washington Monument was.  Spiderman was ready to put this in his pocket to bring it home. :)  Actually, he spent the week squinting at everything thanks to those glasses sitting in the Atlantic somewhere.



Jaybird and Goose each tried their hand at reading from a teleprompter at the Smithsonian's Museum of American History.  I don't recall what speech Goose picked but Jaybird read Regan's famous speech, "... Mr. Gorbechev, tear down that wall!"  Though you can't see it in this photo, the scene behind him substitued his body in the same scene where Regan was supposed to be.


And here they are at a piece of that actual wall.


I'm not sure the occassion but the Marine Corp band was playing a concert while we were at the World War II Memorial.  Awe inspiring!  It was a pretty warm day and I marvelled at their stamina to play in full dress uniform.  


We took a short break to reflect in the fountain and relieve our ACHING feet!  After spending 7 hours in the History museum and walking the National Mall to see the monuments, every one of us could barely walk.  This was only a temporary reprieve.


My man cringed at how much these shirts made us look like tourists but who are we kidding, most everyone there was a tourist.  The kids loved it and the size and scope of the Monuments was worthy of some patriotic shirts.  This city has the unique ability to stir up a deep sense of pride in what God has done in our nation over the years.


This photo is precious to me.  While visiting the Vietnam War Memorial, the woman in black struck up a conversation with me.  As it turns out, she and her mother (also pictured) had just attended a ceremony at Arlington National Cemetary to honor her father, Richard Castillo.  He had been shot down over Laos 38 years ago and that afternoon had been laid to rest at Arlington.  The story is powerful enough on its own but she also shared with me how her mother had raised 6 children without a father and that her faith in God has carried her all these years.  Then she insisted that I meet her mother and see her father's name engraved on the wall.  It was very emotional for me but I thanked them for their sacrifice, losing a father and a husband.   This meeting was a precious highlight.




By the time we were finished for the day, we were exhausted and very hungry.  We never really stopped for lunch (just snacks) and by now it was 9:00 pm.  Some locals guided us to a small burger joint called Ollie's Trolley that they considered to be in walking distance from the mall (our feet disagreed but we kept on).   We ordered too much food but made short work of all of it.  It's never tasted better.


Then began our trek back to the hotel.  We'd used the metro to get around that day and this was a first "subway experience" for all of us country bumpkins.  To Jaybird it was just an underground train and he has ALWAYS loved trains!  Everything about the metro was exciting to the kids and on this night, we missed our shuttle back to the hotel so we even added on the kids first taxi ride to their list of new things.  We collapsed at the hotel by 10:30 pm and dreamt about the next day.